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Jane Katherine "Kathy"
Byrd
Dec 7, 1946 — Sep 5, 2026
Gladewater, Texas
Jane Katherine “Kathy” Byrd, beloved mother, Nana, BeBee, great-grandmother, friend, farmer, gardener, conservationist, and the steady heart of her family, passed away on September 5, 2026, at the age of 79. She died peacefully at home on the family farm, surrounded by her family, just as she wanted.
Kathy was born on December 7, 1946, to Margie and Gilbert Borchers of Cuero, Texas. An only child, she was affectionately considered the “city girl” among many of her cousins and extended family in Centralia, Texas. Life, however, would eventually take that city girl down a very different path.
Kathy graduated from Fredericksburg High School and later attended Abilene Christian College, where she earned a degree in home economics and nutrition. After graduation, she moved across Texas to Tyler, where she began working in programs serving senior adults, including nutrition, Meals on Wheels, and life-skills programs. In one of the wonderful turns of her life story, Kathy’s supervisor would eventually become her mother-in-law.
It was during those years that Kathy met Larry Byrd. Their courtship was brief, but their commitment was not. Larry proposed to Kathy on a hill overlooking his family’s rural farm outside Gladewater, Texas. She said yes, and together they began building a life that would span a family, farm, businesses, and a legacy that continues today.
Kathy and Larry had two sons, Matt and Mark. With the help of their extended family, they built a small two-bedroom home on the farm and committed themselves to making a living from the land. They raised cattle and hogs, planted gardens, built businesses, and worked hard to provide for their growing family. The “city girl” quickly became anything but. Kathy was an integral part of nearly everything Larry built. She was the organizer, record keeper, planner, researcher, and often the much-needed voice of reason behind Larry’s endless stream of ideas. Together, they became pioneers in wetland mitigation and conservation, helping develop some of the earliest permitted wetland mitigation banks within the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers Fort Worth District. Kathy provided the organization, documentation, support, and encouragement needed as she and Larry entered a new and developing field centered on the long-term protection and restoration of wetlands and natural ecosystems. When Larry passed away from cancer in 2008, Kathy faced yet another major change in her life. She assumed responsibility for managing the farms and family businesses they had built together. Her sons, Matt and Mark, stepped in and worked alongside her, continuing the legacy Kathy and Larry had begun—a legacy of farming, real estate, stewardship of the land, and wetland conservation. Yet the accomplishments listed on paper tell only part of Kathy’s story. | Kathy was a devout Christian whose faith was an important foundation throughout her life. She grew up in the Church of Christ, and her faith helped shape the way she lived, loved her family, faced hardship, and cared for others. While attending Abilene Christian College, Kathy loved to sing and attended church as often as she could, worshiping through music and singing in the choir. Through seasons of joy and seasons of loss, her faith remained a steady part of who she was. Kathy was also an active member of the Red Hat Society, where she enjoyed the friendship and fellowship of its members. One of the great gifts of Kathy's life was her 54-year friendship with Charlotte Nelson. Their friendship began as young women and grew through raising families side by side - their children were born only five days apart. Over the decades they shared meals and travels, weddings, the births of grandchildren and great-grandchildren, doctor appointments, laughter, tears, and the loss of their husbands to cancer. More like sisters than friends, Kathy and Charlotte could finish each other's sentences, help one another remember the details of an old story, and always find something to laugh about. Their friendship was built on loyalty, trust, grace, and a lifetime of love. Kathy was many things to many people, and she was deeply loved. She was endlessly creative. |
In Loving Memory
Kathy spent countless hours making what the family came to know as her “feather creations” and “succulent creations.” Often working while a Hallmark movie played in the background, she carefully selected unusual containers and materials and created gifts that were never exactly alike. Each was made with meticulous care and was truly one of a kind.
To receive a “Nana Creation” for a birthday or Christmas was a special blessing. They were more than decorations. They were pieces of Nana—made by her hands specifically for someone she loved.
Kathy also treasured family history, family stories, and the tangible reminders of those who came before her. She found all three in Byrd Pottery, which she began collecting after Larry introduced her to his family and its history. Made by members of the Byrd family from the early 1900s through the 1940s as a way to make a living through difficult years, including the Depression, each piece carried a story of creativity, hard work, and sacrifice. Kathy, Matt, Mark, and the extended Byrd family continued collecting the pottery together, helping preserve those family stories for future generations.
Kathy’s greatest legacy, however, is her family.
She is survived by her sons, Matt and Mark; daughters-in-law, Karla and Lora; six grandchildren, Tori, Kadi and husband Dylan, Nick, Rayne and husband Daniel, Blake, and Austin; two great-grandchildren, Archie and Ivy; and the many bonus children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren whom Kathy welcomed and loved as her own.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Larry Byrd; her parents, Margie and Gilbert Borchers; and her parents-in-law, Rudolph and Lucille Byrd.
Kathy and Larry began their marriage in a small two-bedroom house on a farm outside Gladewater, with no way of knowing where the years ahead would take them. Together, they built much more than a farm and businesses. They built a family. They cared for the land entrusted to them. They created opportunities for the generations who followed them. They left an example of what can be accomplished through faith, hard work, perseverance, and commitment to one another.
Kathy’s family will miss her wisdom, her creativity, her quiet strength, her meticulous attention to detail, and the way she loved and cared for the people around her.
Most of all, they will simply miss their Mom, their Nana, and their BeBee.
In a fitting conclusion to the life Kathy and Larry built together, Kathy’s ashes will be spread alongside Larry’s on the family farm, on the same hill where he asked for her hand in marriage so many years ago. The place where their life together began will also be the place where they will rest together.
Celebration of Life Saturday, September 12, 2026 - First Assembly of God, Gladewater, Texas Visitation: 1:00-2:00 p.m. | Service: 2:00 p.m. Memorial Donations In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to Graciously Broken Ministries in Kathy’s memory. Scan the QR code or visit www.graciouslybroken.com. | SCAN TO DONATE |
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